Two-Way Communication

Two-way communication is critical for the health of organizations and relationships. If I am so busy that I don’t take the time to talk through expectations, then its sets up all parties for frustration. For example, I may expect a project to be due at a certain date, but if I don’t monitor the progress along the way, then the deadline may come and go unaccomplished. If however, a system is in place for ongoing feedback, then everyone is clear on where we are, and where we need to go. Two-way communication brings clarity.

What about our most important relationships? Do we take the time to interact, so there is authentic understanding of each other’s needs? If we are not careful, we can take for granted the very ones we care for the most, and then, in moment of misunderstanding, become angry in our disappointment. Two-way communication takes time to talk.

Communication that goes both ways requires knowledge and comprehension. If you speak out of emotion, before you gain insight into the situation, then you only prolong a productive exchange. Suffering in adversity, Job struggled with this, “He speaks without knowledge; his words lack insight” (Job 34:35). Two-way communication is a product of two people listening, understanding and taking responsibility for their next steps.

Perhaps a weekly progress report on a present project at work is necessary to keep all team members accountable and up to date. At home, you could incorporate a daily walk together just to catch up and hear each other’s hearts. Quality communication flows from quantity time to hear and to be heard. Slow down and then make sure you speak up.

Most importantly, communication with Christ is your greatest opportunity to gain insights and understanding into His heart. If you are too busy to pray, you are too busy. The Bible is His love letter to you. As you read Scripture do you fill in your name, as you read its admonishments? Two-way communication with Him means you desire to learn.

“Listen, my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path” (Proverbs 23:19).

Do I honor others with constructive conversation? Do I listen intently to the Lord?

Related Readings: Psalm 15:1-3; Proverbs 8:6-7; Ephesians 4:25; Jude 1:10